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The dawn of a new season and as my girls get older (oldest now 5) has got me thinking on what role (if any) I should play in passing the torch of my Packer love on to my kids. This was a right of passage growing up in Wisconsin as I can remember sharing Sunday's with my brother and Uncle in his basement, watching games with the volume turned completely down because my Uncle couldn't stand the obnoxious national announcers. Chicago relatives giving my family ****tt during the early eighties on Thanksgiving was common place and climaxed with my cousins microwaving my brother's Packer's hat full of mash potatoes and stuffing. Growing up as a little Packer fan was no easy task.

But then came the new glory years and I have been lucky enough to witness those good years too (I can only imagine how those feel who lived through the Lombardi years, the nonsense in between, and the now). As my family did with me, I think it's time to pass on the love. My daughter has taken some interest in watching games with me and has the obligatory Rodgers jersey she wears on Sunday, but I wonder if any of this will eventually stick with her or if she looks at me as a crazed loser who bends himself out of shape every Sunday about a game he has absolutely no control over. My wife already looks at me as the latter, and has no interest what-so-ever and I actually prefer this to the football obsessed jersey-matching wearing wife. It helps in my life's striving for balance.

I remember reading a story a few years back about a Dad who actually duct taped his young son to a chair because he refused to watch the 2007 Seattle playoff game with him, and I remember how emabarrassed I was to be from Wisconsin until tried this with my daughter this year during the Cleveland preseason game. Maybe as the years go by my kids will be engrained with the same passion I have for the Pack, but I can't help but feel part of this lies on my shoulders. You have to understand, my in-laws live in Minnesota and are huge Vikings fans. I know the brainwashing has begun already!
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My daughter has taken some interest in watching games with me and has the obligatory Rodgers jersey she wears on Sunday, but I wonder if any of this will eventually stick with her or if she looks at me as a crazed loser who bends himself out of shape every Sunday about a game he has absolutely no control over. My wife already looks at me as the latter, and has no interest what-so-ever and I actually prefer this to the football obsessed jersey-matching wearing wife. It helps in my life's striving for balance.

I have a 21 year-old and a 19 year-old daughter, and a 15 year-old son. I've lived in northern Virginia since 1980 and all of my kids were born and raised here. Other than having them live with my diehard Packer support, I've never pressured any of them to support my team. My wife's attitude is like your wife's, she can't understand my obsession but doesn't rag about it too much.

Probably doesn't hurt that the local brand (Redskins) massively suck in all aspects, and that the 90's and 2000's have been good for the Packers, but all three kids are passionate Green Bay fans. It just happened.

So my advice is to just let whatever happens happens. Its hard to resist the Green Bay brand these days.
I have a grandson and a nephew who reacted to the local Packer jingoism by becoming (of all things) Dallas Cowboy fans. Kids may do this (understandably, IMO) but those that do are in a definite minority.

I cannot agree more with the sentiment to avoid pressuring kids into adopting something that should, after all be a fun thing. In any case I don't think you can teach someone to love a team, you can only set an example.

What that fandom can teach, however, that is worthwhile is sportsmanship and a sense of fair play.
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Still, he considers herslf as being a Wisconsinite.


something tells me there is more to this story...


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Hitch-hiked her way across the USA.
Plucked her eyebrows on the way
Shaved her leg and then he was a she
She said, hey babe, take a walk on the wild side,
Said, hey honey,...



Tavis, I recall when I began watching football with my Dad, and asked him why he had picked the Packers as his team to root for. He explained the humble beginnings, perserverance of the team and town, and their present-day "David vs Goliath" situation in the league.
But what really appealed to him were the values that Lombardi preached, the dedication and hard work it required from the players, and the no-nonsense approach and execution.
It made me want to learn more about the team and their history, and just developed from there. Hopefully, the same or similar things will appeal to your girls, and they will follow in your footsteps.
As soon as she was old enough to run and carry a football we would play tackle on the carpet in front of the TV during Packers games. Then a few years back my daughter would watch cheer against the Packers...I think because she knew I was so obsessed with the games, I think she did it soley to chide me and get me agitated. But it fazed me not.

Now the last several years she has become a big Packers fan. Loves all the guys on the field and knows almost each one. She understands the game too.

This year should a good one. Our goal is to get to Lambeau for a game and then she will be have been baptized three times. One Catholic, one Lutheran and the last one lifelong Packer Fan!
Boy's rebel against the establishment to try and lay their own groundrules. My son has fought GB for years. At age 11 he's coming around. He was handed the number 52 jersey in his 1st youth football league and he looked at me and gushed... "CLAY!!!". He won't admit it. But he get's it. It's a matter of time.

My 14 year old daughter has been on board with the Packers for years. Girls mature quicker and she's worn her Packer jersey's proudly. She will watch games with passing interest. Only so she can follow along when it comes up in conversation. It matters for reasons that matter now. Over time that will change to what truly matters.
The experience with our 3 kids is mixed, girls different than the boy, and it will change with age as all kids do. Try to make Packer Sundays a family affair: cook comfort food and lay out the snaxks and drinks. For weeknight games when they are younger its atreat to stay up past bed time. It helps when both mom and dad are crazed Packer fans. It also helps when the team is successful.
I remember when our son was little, he was a wallclimber who never sat still for nothing. I thought to myself this boy aint ever gonna be into football. Boy howdy was I wrong. Now he is a stats and draft freak and seems to know all the stars on all the teams. Pro and college. His goal right now is to play Div1 football and this past week took a big step that way by earning a starting spot on his HS football team as a freshman. Pretty big deal for 8A football in this state. Plays middle linebacker. 5' 10'' 200lns 4.9/40 can bench 250 14 years old

The girls are older and once they hit teenagers the interests change. The one loves Packer Sundays for the food and she gets to have a couple of lite beers. The other one has a crush on AROD and loves to watch him play
I failed miserably as a parent. I wanted my boys to be Packer fans and wrestlers (just like their old man). I think I am just too crazy and watching their dad stomp around the living room on a Sunday; screaming, crying, yelling, laughing, hugging, jumping.....just scared them away from football. They ended up not being physical enough to wrestle and never really enjoyed it all.

The above is all true...but even truer is the fact that they both grew up to be wonderful human beings. They might not be into football, but they are intelligent, moral young men. They might not have wrestled but they played tennis for and with me and had some amazing accomplishments in the sport. I had 10 years of fun going to the courts and playing with them and even more fun watch them compete in tournament and on the high school team.

Moral of the story....to each their own and be proud of all the great accomplishments your kids have.
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Though I still wish they were Packer fans.
My 8-year-old son adores the Pack and has a bedroom wall dedicated to Packer pictures. (Only a wall? I asked him.Big Grin ) He is on his third jersey (Driver, Rodgers, now Clay) and tells his little Viking buddies -- and his teachers when they tease him -- that GB is best. He just followed my footsteps.

His 6-year-old sister on the other hand, will try to twist the knife and say she is rooting for the Vikings or sometimes whomever is playing GB. When I asked her once, "What do you do when I tell you to do something?" her answer was, "Da opposite." Most of the time she couldn't care less about football, but then she'll sit down and watch a game and yell, "Goooo, Packers!"

They love to see what gets your goat. I don't care if they love or hate football or GB (they still don't get the remote), but I do want them to play a sport and they both do. Being a parent is the most wonderful, fantastic, frustrating, loving thing a person could ever do.

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